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Yes§

  • (Read [[viral]] first if you haven’t. The children of this paragraph can be considered a virus. If you don’t want to catch it, please stop reading now.)
  • Welcome to [[Flancia]]! It is, I hope, a place interesting to all [[kind]] people.
    • Whatever happens, I hope you’re having a great day or night, wherever [[you]] are.
    • If you can, have [[a nice day]]!
    • Note that [[Flancia]] is a complex of memes. You can think of reading Flancia as being akin to be fine with being infected; thank you for taking the risk with this if you do.
    • Flancia is meant to be [[fully optional]].
      • If you don’t like Flancia, you can stop thinking of Flancia anytime. You will always remain a friend to our hearts, as of the time we parted. Unless you want to be forgotten; if you’d like to be forgotten, please just let it be known.
      • This is a device designed such as it’s fine if you just ignore it. You can stop reading this anytime :)
    • Having said that, I hope you like this complex! It tries to be wholly positive; it is meant to be a [[constructive]] subset of knowledge.
      • In Flancia there is an [[Agora]] that you can visit anytime if you are so inclined.
      • It is reachable through the internet.
      • If you don’t currently have internet access, but can reach out to [[flancia collective]] and we will try to secure [[internet rights]] for you. We have limited resources but can at least try to help you find people that can help you better than we currently can.
    • What is encoded in your most popular [[meme]]?
      • The one in [[viral]], I guess, is mine; currently my most popular post on social media. I may be remembered for it if I don’t do any better before I die.
      • I’d rather be remembered for a better thing, though, which is why I started [[Flancia]].
      • Which of you would you like to share? Tell me over [[matrix]] and I’ll read you gladly.
    • In Flancia [[you]] and [[I]] both can join a [[gentle revolution]].
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[[yes]] [[no]] [[maybe]] (follow the link to vote)


I sometimes talk and people don’t listen. It’s like they don’t see the point.

Very often it happens when I’m trying to tell them we should cooperate.

Does this happen to you as well?

[[yes]] [[no]] [[maybe]]


This is one of the plans in the repository of plans that is [[Flancia]].

Would you like to read more about it?

[[yes]] [[no]] [[maybe]]


The other day I walked in front of the beautiful building of the police of [[kreis 4]] of Zürich and I thought of turning myself in. Would you like to read about it?

[[yes]] [[no]] [[maybe]]


CW: Flancia

Would you trust this guy

#yes #no #maybe https://t.co/a1cuPFn2Py


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📚 Agora node [[bayes]] (pulled by the Agora)
📜 File bayes.md by @agora@botsin.space ☆ 📎
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📚 Agora node [[english smoke or embers in eyes]] (pulled by the Agora)
📜 File Emergency/english_smoke_or_embers_in_eyes.md by @KGBicheno ☆ 📎

# Smoke and embers in your eyes If you are giving first aid for ANY eye injury, DO NOT: ! - touch the eye or any contact lenses§

allow the patient to rub their eyes

try to remove any object which is penetrating the eye

apply pressure when bandaging the eye.

The most common eye hazards people face in bushfire circumstances are smoke, poisonous and harmful gases, and thermal dangers such as embers and radiating heat. Smoke from burning vegetation is made up of hundreds of chemicals in a gas, liquid and solid form. These include some toxic aldehydes*, benzene (a known carcinogen), water vapour, harmful gases such as carbon monoxide, and small particles of soot and other materials (as small as 3.5 micrometres**). Exposure to and contact with these substances can lead to irritation of the eyes. Common symptoms following exposure /contact with smoke include pain, discomfort, redness and watering of the eyes. Possible injuries resulting from exposure to fires and smoke include abrasions to the cornea, conjunctivitis (red eyes), and ember burns to the eyelids, eyeballs and face.

  • Aldehydes are a respiratory irritant— most are safe but some are potential carcinogens. Formaldehyde is the most abundant aldehyde produced during bushfires. ** A micrometre (µm) is one-millionth of a metre. What to do If you get smoke in your eyes 1 Wash your eyes with sterile saline or cold tap water (or eye drops [artificial tears]). 2 Seek medical aid if pain and discomfort continues. The blink reflex usually causes the eyelid to close in response to heat. So, fire or thermal injuries generally affect the eyelid rather than the eyeball itself.

If any embers fly into your eye, or if you have had direct fire or thermal burn to your eye 1 Do not rub your eye. 2 Open your eyelid gently and wash your eye with large amounts of cold flowing water for 20 minutes. 3 Place an eye pad (if available) or light, clean dressing over the injured eye only. 4 See a doctor if the embers cannot be washed out, or if pain or redness continue. 5 See a doctor immediately if your vision deteriorates after the burn, or if you have continuing pain and discomfort. If the burning material includes plastics or rubber, the thermal gases and ember particles are likely to be particularly irritating.

If you feel you have a foreign body in your eye 1 Do not rub the eye. 2 Do not try to remove the foreign object stuck in the eye. 3 Seek immediate medical attention.

📚 Agora node [[getting to yes]] (pulled by the Agora)
📜 File Readwise/Books/Getting to Yes.md by @protopian ☆ 📎

Getting to Yes§

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  • There is a third way to negotiate, a way neither hard nor soft, but rather both hard and soft. The method of principled negotiation developed at the Harvard Negotiation Project is to decide issues on their merits rather than through a haggling process focused on what each side says it will and won’t do. It suggests that you look for mutual gains whenever possible, and that where your interests conflict, you should insist that the result be based on some fair standards independent of the will of either side. The method of principled negotiation is hard on the merits, soft on the people. It employs no tricks and no posturing. Principled negotiation shows you how to obtain what you are entitled to and still be decent. It enables you to be fair while protecting you against those who would take advantage of your fairness. (Location 319)
  • Any method of negotiation may be fairly judged by three criteria: It should produce a wise agreement if agreement is possible. It should be efficient. And it should improve or at least not damage the relationship between the parties. (A wise agreement can be defined as one that meets the legitimate interests of each side to the extent possible, resolves conflicting interests fairly, is durable, and takes community interests into account.) (Location 356)
  • the more attention that is paid to positions, the less attention is devoted to meeting the underlying concerns of the parties. Agreement becomes less likely. Any agreement reached may reflect a mechanical splitting of the difference between final positions rather than a solution carefully crafted to meet the legitimate interests of the parties. The result is frequently an agreement less satisfactory to each side than it could have been, or no agreement at all, when a good agreement was possible. (Location 391)
  • These four points define a straightforward method of negotiation that can be used under almost any circumstance. Each point deals with a basic element of negotiation, and suggests what you should do about it. People: Separate the people from the problem. Interests: Focus on interests, not positions. Options: Invent multiple options looking for mutual gains before deciding what to do. Criteria: Insist that the result be based on some objective standard. (Location 485)
  • Failing to deal with others sensitively as human beings prone to human reactions can be disastrous for a negotiation. Whatever else you are doing at any point during a negotiation, from preparation to follow-up, it is worth asking yourself, “Am I paying enough attention to the people problem?” (Location 626)
  • To find your way through the jungle of people problems, it is useful to think in terms of three basic categories: perception, emotion, and communication. The various people problems all fall into one of these three baskets. (Location 664)
  • Ultimately, however, conflict lies not in objective reality, but in people’s heads. Truth is simply one more argument—perhaps a good one, perhaps not—for dealing with the difference. The difference itself exists because it exists in their thinking. Fears, even if ill-founded, are real fears and need to be dealt with. Hopes, even if unrealistic, may cause a war. Facts, even if established, may do nothing to solve the problem. Both parties may agree that one lost the watch and the other found it, but still disagree over who should get it. It may finally be established that the auto accident was caused by the blowout of a tire that had been driven 31,402 miles, but the parties may dispute who should pay for the damage. The detailed history and geography of the Western Sahara, no matter how carefully studied and documented, is not the stuff with which one puts to rest that kind of territorial dispute. No study of who developed what nuclear devices when will put to rest the conflict between India and Pakistan. As useful as looking for objective reality can be, it is ultimately the reality as each side sees it that constitutes the problem in a negotiation and opens the way to a solution. (Location 676)
  • The ability to see the situation as the other side sees it, as difficult as it may be, is one of the most important skills a negotiator can possess. It is not enough to know that they see things differently. If you want to influence them, you also need to understand empathetically the power of their point of view and to feel the emotional force with which they believe in it. It is not enough to study them like beetles under a microscope; you need to know what it feels like to be a beetle. To accomplish this task you should be prepared to withhold judgment for a while as you “try on” their views. (Location 688)
  • It is all too easy to fall into the habit of putting the worst interpretation on what the other side says or does. A suspicious interpretation often follows naturally from one’s existing perceptions. Moreover, it seems the “safe” thing to do, and it shows spectators how bad the other side really is. But the cost of interpreting whatever they say or do in its most dismal light is that fresh ideas in the direction of agreement are spurned, and subtle changes of position are ignored or rejected. (Location 724)
  • Give them a stake in the outcome by making sure they participate in the process. (Location 758)
  • Pay attention to “core concerns.” Many emotions in negotiation are driven by a core set of five interests: autonomy, the desire to make your own choices and control your own fate; appreciation, the desire to be recognized and valued; affiliation, the desire to belong as an accepted member of some peer group; role, the desire to have a meaningful purpose; and status, the desire to feel fairly seen and acknowledged. Trampling on these interests tends to generate strong negative emotions. Attending to them can build rapport and a positive climate for problem-solving negotiation. (Location 811)
  • Such desires and concerns are interests. Interests motivate people; they are the silent movers behind the hubbub of positions. Your position is something you have decided upon. Your interests are what caused you to so decide. (Location 979)
  • Ask “Why not?” Think about their choice. One of the most useful ways to uncover interests is first to identify the basic decision that those on the other side probably see you asking them for, and then to ask yourself why they have not made that decision. What interests of theirs stand in the way? If you are trying to change their minds, the starting point is to figure out where their minds are now. (Location 1030)
  • Now analyze the consequences, as the other side would probably see them, of agreeing or refusing to make the decision you are asking for. You may find a checklist of consequences such as the following helpful in this task: Impact on my interests Will I lose or gain political support? Will colleagues criticize or praise me? Impact on the group’s interests What will be the short-term consequences? The long-term consequences? What will be the economic [political, legal, psychological, military, etc.] consequences? What will be the effect on outside supporters and public opinion? Will the precedent be good or bad? Will making this decision prevent doing something better? Is the action consistent with our principles? Is it “right”? Can I do it later if I want? (Location 1087)
  • If you want someone to listen and understand your reasoning, give your interests and reasoning first and your conclusions or proposals later. (Location 1174)
  • Often the wisest solutions, those that produce the maximum gain for you at the minimum cost to the other side, are produced only by strongly advocating your interests. Two negotiators, each pushing hard for their interests, will often stimulate each other’s creativity in thinking up mutually advantageous solutions. (Location 1209)
  • Fighting hard on the substantive issues increases the pressure for an effective solution; giving support to the human beings on the other side tends to improve your relationship and to increase the likelihood of reaching agreement. It is the combination of support and attack that works; either alone is likely to be insufficient. (Location 1225)
  • In most negotiations there are four major obstacles that inhibit the inventing of an abundance of options: (1) premature judgment; (2) searching for the single answer; (3) the assumption of a fixed pie; and (4) thinking that “solving their problem is their problem.” To overcome these constraints, you need to understand them. (Location 1251)
  • To invent creative options, then, you will need to (1) separate the act of inventing options from the act of judging them; (2) broaden the options on the table rather than look for a single answer; (3) search for mutual gains; and (4) invent ways of making their decisions easy. (Location 1289)
  • We often try to influence others by threats and warnings of what will happen if they do not decide as we would like. Offers are usually more effective. Concentrate both on making them aware of the consequences they can expect if they do decide as you wish and on improving those consequences from their point of view. How can you make your offers more credible? What are some specific things that they might like? Would they like to be given credit for having made the final proposal? Would they like to make the announcement? What can you invent that might be attractive to them but low in cost to yourself? (Location 1609)
  • Principled negotiation produces wise agreements amicably and efficiently. The more you bring standards of fairness, efficiency, or scientific merit to bear on your particular problem, the more likely you are to produce a final package that is wise and fair. The more you and the other side refer to precedent and community practice, the greater your chance of benefiting from past experience. And an agreement consistent with precedent is less vulnerable to attack. If a lease contains standard terms or if a sales contract conforms to practice in the industry, there is less risk that either negotiator will feel that he was harshly treated or will later try to repudiate the agreement. (Location 1655)
  • Pressure can take many forms: a bribe, a threat, a manipulative appeal to trust, or a simple refusal to budge. In all these cases, the principled response is the same: invite them to state their reasoning, suggest objective criteria you think apply, and refuse to budge except on this basis. Never yield to pressure, only to principle. (Location 1791)
  • Develop your BATNA. Vigorous exploration of what you will do if you do not reach agreement can greatly strengthen your hand. Attractive alternatives are not just sitting there waiting for you; you usually have to develop them. Generating possible BATNAs requires three distinct operations: (1) inventing a list of actions you might conceivably take if no agreement is reached; (2) improving some of the more promising ideas and converting them into practical alternatives; and (3) selecting, tentatively, the one alternative that seems best. (Location 1959)
  • If pushing back does not work, what does? How can you prevent the cycle of action and reaction? Do not push back. When they assert their positions, do not reject them. When they attack your ideas, don’t defend them. When they attack you, don’t counterattack. Break the vicious cycle by refusing to react. Instead of pushing back, sidestep their attack and deflect it against the problem. As in the Oriental martial arts of judo and jujitsu, avoid pitting your strength against theirs directly; instead, use your skill to step aside and turn their strength to your ends. Rather than resisting their force, channel it into exploring interests, inventing options for mutual gain, and searching for independent standards. (Location 2028)
  • Those engaged in negotiation jujitsu use two key tools. The first is to use questions instead of statements. Statements generate resistance, whereas questions generate answers. Questions allow the other side to get their points across and let you understand them. They pose challenges and can be used to lead the other side to confront the problem. Questions offer them no target to strike at, no position to attack. Questions do not criticize, they educate. “Do you think it would be better to have teachers cooperating in a process they felt they were participating in, or actively resisting one they felt was imposed on them and failed to take their concerns into account?” (Location 2082)
📚 Agora node [[osteichthyes]] (pulled by the Agora)
📜 File osteichthyes.md by @s5bug ☆ 📎

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Taxonomy§

📚 Agora node [[signs point to yes]] (pulled by the Agora)
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Signs point to yes§

📚 Agora node [[windows nightlight saves my eyes]] (pulled by the Agora)
📜 File pages/windows nightlight saves my eyes.org by @vera ☆ 📎
* I have a love/hate relationship with the #nightlight feature on operating systems * It is kinda nice when I my roommate goes to sleep and there lights are dim ** we live in cramped spaces so we have a lot of shared lighting * *